Johnpaul
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4:13pm March 11th, 2011
Hi everyone, I need some advise please. I am a bloke and i have a fetish for wearing womens latex clothing, however all was fine until my girlfriend found my orders on a certain website. I had to explain what all the orders were, so i told her the truth but now she wants to know if i still have this fetish. I having been building up to tell her about it & try & involve it in our sex life. What do i now? Please help, James
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Leon
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6:39pm March 13th, 2011
Hi James,
oh that's seriously a bad situation. I think there are three possible ways: You meet a girl a first time and you talk about your fetish. That make things most easy. Or you learn a fetish for yourself and share your fetish with your partner. That also good but it's a little difficult if your partner "find" something hidden. You will have the problem that she will have lost the trust in you for some time.
Personally, I would try to get slowly more and more in contact with her and try to built up the trust in you. I would explain her that you didn't talked about latex or fetish to not offend her. That you was not sure how she would think about this passion. Try to not to talk about fetish even she start the conversation. Be honestly and don't say you don't like latex anymore. With some time maybe she get interested for herself about latex and if you get her slowly in contact with latex this situation might be a final success.
I'm not a psychiatrist but I hope my thoughts help you.
Leon
oh that's seriously a bad situation. I think there are three possible ways: You meet a girl a first time and you talk about your fetish. That make things most easy. Or you learn a fetish for yourself and share your fetish with your partner. That also good but it's a little difficult if your partner "find" something hidden. You will have the problem that she will have lost the trust in you for some time.
Personally, I would try to get slowly more and more in contact with her and try to built up the trust in you. I would explain her that you didn't talked about latex or fetish to not offend her. That you was not sure how she would think about this passion. Try to not to talk about fetish even she start the conversation. Be honestly and don't say you don't like latex anymore. With some time maybe she get interested for herself about latex and if you get her slowly in contact with latex this situation might be a final success.
I'm not a psychiatrist but I hope my thoughts help you.
Leon
